A Private, Encrypted App for Couples Exploring Kink, Power & Intimacy
TAME is the encrypted intimacy app for curious or kinky partners who want structured tension and deeper connection without clichés, exposure, or surveillance. TAME is the encrypted intimacy app for curious or kinky partners who want structured tension and deeper connection without clichés, exposure, or surveillance.
FOR PARTNERS WHO WANT MORE THAN VANILLA
What makes TAME different?
Create private encrypted spaces to shape your dynamic — rituals, roles, tasks, communication — all protected from tracking, leaks, or exposure.
Most couples don’t want extremes. They want structure, trust, and a safe way to explore what already exists between them.
TAME brings clarity and structure to kink, curiosity, and soft D/s dynamics. Shape rituals, define roles, and explore tension together in a private, encrypted space that protects your intimacy instead of exploiting it.
TAME is designed for:
Curious and kinky partners exploring tension, guidance, or structured intimacy
Female-led relationships and soft D/s dynamics looking for a safe, elegant tool
Long-distance couples who want structure, presence, and shared rituals
Experienced D/s partners who want deeper protocols, structure, and accountability without chaos or exposure
What you can build with TAME
Features
Explore, shape, and sustain your dynamic with tools designed for tension, clarity, and deep connection in a private encrypted space.
Complete Privacy & Control
No profile, no feed, no public visibility. Everything happens in your own end-to-end encrypted space — fully private, fully yours.
Define Rules, Tasks & Rituals
Structure your dynamic with daily check-ins, rituals, rules, or tasks that support clarity, anticipation, and connection.
Tension & Guidance Tools
Elegant tools to sustain tension, inspire devotion, and keep your dynamic alive.
Secure Space for Communication
End-to-end encrypted chat made for intimate dynamics. Share voice, text, images, or playful guidance without exposure or tracking.
Customisable Inspiration Library
Explore refined templates for rituals, rules, scenes, or tasks you can adapt to your dynamic, or create your own.
Encrypted Cloud Storage
Keep your shared moments safe in an encrypted private vault only the two of you can access.
Shape your dynamic with absolute privacy
How TAME works
A clear, private framework to explore role-based intimacy inside an encrypted space built for partners who want more intention than vanilla apps offer.
Create Your Encrypted Space
Start a private vault for your dynamic. Everything inside is end-to-end encrypted : fully yours, fully inaccessible to anyone else.
Invite Your Partner(s)
Share a unique, discreet identifier to let your partner join your space. No public profile, no exposure, no unwanted visibility.
Set Roles, Rituals & Expectations
Set the tone of your dynamic with roles, rules, tasks, protocols, or daily check-ins. Perfect for partners exploring soft dominance, D/s rituals or curious kink.
Sustain Tension With Elegant Tools
Keep your dynamic alive with structured anticipation: rituals, instructions, guidance tools, and shared moments that reinforce connection whether you’re close or long-distance.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is TAME a dating app ?
No. TAME is not designed for matching strangers. It’s a private, encrypted space for people who already share a dynamic: partners, couples, or evolving D/s relationships.
Do you store our messages, rituals or photos ?
No. Everything inside your space is end-to-end encrypted. We cannot read, track, analyze, or train models on your content. Your intimacy stays fully inaccessible to us.
Is TAME only for BDSM or hardcore kink ?
Not at all. TAME is built for curious partners, soft D/s dynamics, female-led relationships, long-distance couples, or anyone who wants intentional role-based intimacy. You choose the level of structure, tension, and ritual that fits your relationship.
How does my partner join my encrypted space ?
You simply share a unique identifier. No profile, no username search, no public visibility. You control exactly who can enter.
Can we customize roles, rules, and rituals ?
Yes. Everything is modular. You can create your own rules, tasks, rituals, and check-ins, or adapt inspiration templates to fit your dynamic.
Is image or voice sharing safe ?
Yes. Images, voice notes, and messages stay encrypted between you and your partner(s). They never pass through a readable form on our servers.
What happens if I lose my passphrase ?
Because of end-to-end encryption, we cannot recover your space or decrypt it for you. You remain the only one with access. This is a privacy guarantee — not a bug.
When is TAME launching ?
Early access is currently limited. Joining the waitlist grants priority access and early supporter benefits.
Early supporters get priority access and exclusive features.
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